Sometimes in intimate relationships, we lose the connection. We are just living together, whether that is in the same space or not.
There can be a palpable loss of real intimacy while still sharing the same space. This condition creates a terrible stuck loneliness. We may wish to escape at all costs, especially once our partner starts mirroring our own issues back to us (which they are always doing.)
It is here that commitment can really benefit us. If we run, we may miss the chance to unpack and release the fears at the heart of our loneliness and longing. Although space might help, deep exploration and moving towards our partners are also great options.
We must learn to communicate the deep truths in our hearts with our lovers and best friends. This is where connection is born. It takes vulnerability and great courage.
We must learn to listen to the deep truths when they are shared with us. We must learn to discern when it is not about us, so we can hold space for our lovers and friends, family members, and others.
True connection is the antidote to so many of our society’s issues. Are you ready to brave it for a new earth? This does not mean connecting willy nilly with anyone and everyone. This means listening to the deep song in your heart and singing it for those who have ears to hear.